The soft life starts within.

This 1:1 mentorship is for women and femmes who are single and ready to do the inner work necessary to end toxic cycles once and for all, and radically upgrade their self-worth, standards, and lifestyle. This program starts at a 3 month commitment.

While our work together will be attuned to your unique process, the following are core elements that we’ll explore over the course of the mentorship:

• Breathwork, guided meditation, and somatic practices
• Shadow integration: bringing the darker and disowned parts of yourself into the light of your own curiosity, raw honesty, and radical self-acceptance
• Cultivating personal responsibility and self-accountability
• Owning and aligning with your deepest desires
• Standards, boundaries, discernment, energetic hygiene, and your embodied yeses and nos
• Ending patterns of self-betrayal, self-abandonment, people-pleasing, settling, “fixing”, and other toxic relational fuckery
• Reclamation: restoring the parts of yourself that have been lost, dimmed, or shrunken for the comfort of others
• Choosing yourself: dating sabbaticals, conscious celibacy, and the importance of focusing on becoming your own most exquisite lover first
• Self-reverence: cultivating greater self-worth, self-respect, self-discipline, self-validation, and self-trust
• Rejection resilience
• Overcoming shame
• Erotic Alchemy & Sensual Self-Care: cultivating wholeness through self-seduction, self-lust, ritual self-pleasure, and solo sex magic practices
• Erotic embodiment and liberation
• Being your own Daddy: healing your inner masculine and activating the protector within
• Blissful singlehood: finding peace and thriving as a whole and complete single babe
• Creating your most opulent, next level, turned-on, Wet Pussy Energy life

An integral element of my Self-Love, Sovereignty, and Standards program, these erotic practices and rituals have been cultivated to bring you face to face with your shadows, offer you radical (and incredibly sexy) tools for integration, initiate you into an embodied state of soul-deep self-worship, teach you to harness and channel your sexual energy into creating the life of your dreams, and elevate your erotic experiences with those you choose to share yourself with.

The transmission of these practices can exist as a standalone module outside of my coaching program for those who wish to focus specifically on this aspect of their inner work. This 1:1 journey of erotic reclamation starts at a 1 month commitment.

Have an issue in the realms of kink, sexuality, and pleasure that you’re seeking solutions for? A sex or kink question that you’re struggling to find reliable answers to on the internet? Or perhaps a sex-related question that just feels downright fucking weird or uncomfortable to ask anyone else?

My 1:1 Personal Consulting calls offer compassionate, shame-free, confidential space for discussion of intimate topics, along with no-nonsense wisdom, information, and insight drawn from my unique personal experience, training, and professional expertise to help you uncomplicate and demystify sex and kink.

I’m available to consult on various topics in the realms of kink, human sexuality, and SW. I’ve worked with individuals, small businesses, and corporate clientele on projects ranging from research and development for immersive experience curation, to production of erotic events, to aesthetic and ergonomic design of BDSM furniture, to sourcing of unique high-end BDSM toys and fetish attire.

Educational sessions for individuals and groups who wish to expand their erotic horizons, increase their pleasure, grow in competency around consent practices, communication, and negotiation, and/or learn specific technical BDSM skills that are within my personal areas of expertise. 1:1 calls and group workshop facilitation available.